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How do you guys feel about the Pomodoro Technique? (lemmy.ml)

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I've been trying it out recently to some degree of success, finding the right intervals was the hard part, 25-5 feels like absolute torture to me.

Is anyone else giving it ago?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Love it, nothing would get done without it. A few tricks and changes I applied over the decades:

When you are in a hard spot, or habit building, or a child, 25 minutes can be too much. How about 10 minutes. The thought that after those 10 minutes I'll be more skilled at X than ever before IN MY LIFE can be quite motivating.
Similarly, how about just ONE session? Seems ridiculous, but what I got done with that over 10 years is nothing short of amazing.
Be super-serious about it. You can get water upfront, you can go to the toilet, but not once the session started. It's essentially Squid Game, and only the player who crammed the most into their head survives. If you have to pee, you pee in your pants. You don't get water. When you do break the rules, e. g. because there is literally a fire (react to fire only if survival chance is < 90 %), the session is marked as failed and you are done for the day. It's DEFINITELY better than half-assing two sessions even a little bit, like reacting to a phone buzz or door bell or getting water.
Audio-Log. Your task is serious (see above), it's like reviving a frozen Neanderthal. Example: "It's Jan 1 2025 3 p.m. Ready to start the 25 minute countdown and point of no return ... now. Ok, max performance needed. Item of highest priority: Find position in book and recap what we learned yesterday with a 42 second timebox. Note: After 42 seconds, acquisition of new information directly will become more effective than preparing for it. Timebox counting down now on second timer. ..." I just hope nobody ever finds my audio logs, or I'm in the nuthouse for good.

One of the things I love about it is that it gives a unit of measure. It's no longer like: I want to be a programmer, so I have to do this for a couple of years with no clear end. It's a unit of progress that can go on a todo-list and be checked off.

So yes, for learning new things, it's still my way to go. Usually with 1 unit per day only, 45 minutes, sometimes 25. Most other tasks offer a different breakdown. E. g. cleaning up - can't just do it. But it is less threatening with checkable tasks like: 1. put all garbage in a bag. 2. put all non-foods in box 1. 3. ...