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[–] [email protected] 7 points 6 hours ago (1 children)

This is very human behaviour, totally normal.

What helps me with this specifically is saying "What if it all works out?" or the similar inverse of whatever your worry is. "I might fuck up my interview and say something dumb" becomes "What if we get on so well, they toss out their questions and we just start chatting like old friends?"

It's not like 🕉️ woowoo positive ✨ mantras ✨and manifestation stuff. It's literally tricking you brain to make good chemicals instead of bad ones.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 3 hours ago

For awhile I spent some time with just a movie on in the background and I was scrolling through some happy posts.

Then I distracted myself with some food and a few rounds of Balatro.

Looking for something else to do for a bit then I’ll head to bed.

I think it’s just a bunch of bad stuff happening lately all at once that’s making me feel overwhelmed.