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How do you get over the fact that not everyone will like you? (lemmy.ca)

submitted 3 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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It’s obvious and you would be deluded into thinking everyone you interact with likes you.

But how do you feel it?

Context: I’m a course instructor and I get direct reviews on my lessons and around 95% of feedback is positive to very positive.

There’s less than 5% of my reviews that have real negative and non-constructive comments. Things like accusations of being incompetent or unprepared or full of shit, etc. They mention times I had technical difficulties or made a mistake (like giving an incorrect response)

Just by the numbers alone this is a very small minority overall. Yet these comments stick in my head and make me doubt my abilities.

So what are your strategies or ways you drown out this stuff?

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[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Jupp same here.

I just care about it if it has a real negative consequence. Like your boss won't promote you. Otherwise it doesn't matter. Not. One. Bit.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

That’s the thing, if my reviews aren’t stellar then there’s a good chance I don’t get renewed