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Do you ever feel like that sometimes ? (lemmy.dbzer0.com)

submitted 5 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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When you're at work, do you ever find yourself fantasizing and being hyper motivated about being home to continue THAT thing you're really excited about or should be doing. But then once you get home all motivation evaporates and you end up doing nothing and feeling guilty about it?

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (4 children)

ALWAYS. Maybe you have ADHD. Weed helps me IMMENSELY with that.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I love that you didn't realize the community you were in

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

lol, I just realized, haha

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

"maybe you have adhd"

Please check the sub name. Lol

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

What better proof that they know what they're talking about?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

I find that on the contrary, alcohol helps me feel more relaxed and feel less guilty and eventually just do stuff without overthinking it.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Can I ask in which way it helps? Or perhaps, what in particular it helps with? For example, the "feeling guilty" part is very different from "motivation evaporates", but remedying either, or something else entirely, can be considered helping.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

I have the complete opposite experience. Weed removes the guilt of not doing anything, but it usually leads to me doing nothing.

I enjoy weed occasionally because it turns off that hyper critical voice in my head, but it absolutely isn't a magic motivation medicine for most people.

After using pretty heavily last year and taking a break, I've realized that the overall effect is fairly negative, because it just makes me way too ok with doing nothing. Sometimes I need to do nothing and take a break, and it's great for helping me do that, but for me personally, it's a major negative when I'm doing it regularly.

Obviously your experience is different (as is everyone's a little) so feel free to try it, just keep in mind that it can get very easy to get addicted to that "mellow brain" feeling until you realize that all progress on all of your goals have stalled out because it's easy to just be high all afternoon and evening. There are lots of people who can be motivated and productive while high, but I think I've determined that I'm not one of them.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

It makes that motivation that evaporated return. And it returns even stronger (like way stronger) than when I initially had it sober.