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"b-but bears are actually dangerous!" Shut the hell up.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 5 months ago (1 children)

It's so insanely common but most of us never report, if ever tell anyone at all. It took me decades before I could even say it outloud. My heart goes out to your wife. Seems she has a good support system, thankfully.

Like her, it started at 12 for me and around the same age with most women I know. My mom was also assaulted, as well as my grandmother. I don't know any women who haven't experienced some form of harassment/assault

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago

I appreciate your kind words. Her sharing her experiences with me has been eye opening, im sure a decade ago I would have scoffed at the women choosing the bear, but listening to her stories, and the stories of others has thankfully helped me mature.