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submitted 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
 
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[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago) (30 children)

My old person trait is a belief that anyone that works full time should be able to aspire to own there own home, support their wife and kids and still have a little left over to save at the end of the month.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (23 children)

So your old person trait is really that "wife stay at home with the kids" should be the norm?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

It should be an option for those outside the top 1%. Let's be honest, plenty of jobs suck and a lot of people who look after a children professionally are not the brightest sparks in the fire (at least where I am). Why should someone be forced to do a crap job then give all that salary to someone less cultures than the to look after their kids. Why not just do it themselves?

If one of you has a good, full-time job that should cover basic living expenses. It should also not be looked down. My wife is a stay at home mum, she is also a feminist and I certainly did not not force her to to work. The only thing we regret is the way people (especially other women but not only) look down on her.

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