Don't worry about it. You'll cheat on each other later so it's better to get used to it.
lazyneet
joined 9 months ago
It was one of my first sexual experiences. I was a lucky boy. I was living in Portland at the time, and I know how hard it can be to find queer relationships in more rural areas. You could ask your SO to find a bi/pan guy to fuck you. I've found that girls are able to navigate those things easier.
I was spitroasted once or twice. My poly gf (who was as open and casual as most others in this fluid dynamic we had) invited her other bf over to fuck me in the ass while I ate her out. Great experience, though I should have dilated. After that I started looking for harder partners to wreck my ass, but I didn't get into BDSM as much until I exhausted the mainstream vanilla routes. 8 years later, I'm taking steps to prepare for getting properly sodomized, cause it's been a while.
I guess I'll have to hit harder when I see him next month. "Hey man, you know, you're my type. Firm, dominant, and nice to look at. I hope you're not too straight. 😂"
I just flirted a little in response to his fetlife message. I think I said something to the effect of not troubling him to give me a ride, unless there were certain circumstances "if you know what I mean... :)"
Went to a casual BDSM meetup at a bar on Friday. The bus system limited my time there to an hour. Saw a familiar face (23M) who swapped fetlife info with me but did not reciprocate flirting, probably too straight for me (30M). Cuddle partner is recovering, so maybe I'll see her tomorrow.
You heard me. Masochist here
A mutually destructive long-term relationship with an aggressively sadistic transwoman who keeps me tied up when I sleep and rapes me multiple times per day, and neither of us have any limits or inhibitions to prevent one from molesting the other at any time, but she dishes out discipline when she deems I deserve it, and the fruits of our love are watered with tears.
Is someone hitting on me? ☺️ I actually went to another group yesterday evening at a bar, and that did improve the atmosphere somewhat.
A few things. It's in a pizza parlor with a bunch of 10-year-olds running around. (We had a private room, but it wasn't that private.) The crowd wasn't gay enough as far as the guys were concerned, which is a cultural problem in the area. The women also fell into their heteronormative roles and gossip. Half of the folks there weren't into bdsm that much, they were just poly swinger folks. A lot of distrust for one another, some stratification between age groups, no real cohesion.
Because you say you're more feminine, I wonder if it's western society's image of a "man" that you don't like. I've been into transgirls since high school, but back then they had to be cis passing. Now that I'm 30 I'm less picky, and I'm even starting to like some guys with facial hair. There is something to be said for novelty, and if you've never tried a partner with a dick, how do you know you won't like it?
Calling people out on friendly advice isn't very neighborly. Most relationships aren't built for monogamy.