lazyneet

There is [email protected] but it's kinda dead

University of Oklahoma has an organization and there are probably more at other colleges in the state. I can attest to the difficulties of online dating. There may also be LGBTQ resources in your town or nearby, like a social gathering at a community center or something.

Replace him with a suitable substitute on some dating platform. If you're in a major city, that shouldn't be difficult. If you're out in the sticks like I am, alcohol may be your only friend. Maybe get a job or attend a college in a place where gays can be gay.

I know. I'm privacy conscious and have software dev and IT training. I'm a lot better than most zoomers in that regard. I'm just hoping that my niche actually exists in the real world and isn't purely a rhetorical construct invented to get underage queers to join discord servers and talk about identity issues. I would hope glowies have better things to do than infiltrate the gay community. I would also hope that the liminal space of looking like a girl but not identifying as one is a common shared experience. My litmus test is age, so the more 40something and 50something femboys and sissies I see, the more secure I am in the label's legitimacy. Do girly boys hold a special place in your heart?

My sexy fun for the year seemed to start and end in July. It seems I can't get much, but that doesn't stop me from trying. I brought a gay friend to a BDSM group a couple days ago, and he politely observed and listened to people talk. Very quiet and non-confrontational sort of guy. I don't think he's interested in me.

I've also taken an interest in niche dating sites - made an account on Duolicious and managed to make contact with a metrosexual 24-year-old, but he's so incredibly shy and reserved that I don't think it's going anywhere. I also found a site called Sissy Island, but they're having server errors. If I could date only in femboy and sissy circles, especially if the crowd skews more to Gen Y, I couldn't ask for more. My sexuality is abnormal, and I guess I'm going against the grain by avoiding people I'm not attracted to, since the standard for my generation seems to be having no standards.

To be the webcam on that netbook <3

Where indeed? I'm pansexual, currently leaning more gay, nb-presenting male with a thin frame. If I had no standards, I could probably find some bear in the area. Scruff is another gay app, and I managed to meet someone through that who looks like my type but isn't much of a top and didn't want to meet again. I'm also on a BDSM-focused gay site called Recon, where I've been engaged in a multi-month ongoing conversation with this shy pantyhose fetishist who eventually wants to try things. I avoid Grindr because I'm not looking for disposable experiences.

I'm into girly boys or boyish girls who are absolute sadists, or switches. My sexuality is BDSM-informed. That means I talk about rape and torture a lot. To me it's all fun and games because I've never had the opportunity to get raped, never had a relationship last longer than 2 years, never talked to a doctor about HRT despite me desperately trying to avoid the label of "man". I'm looking for someone to enable my depraved femininity.

I'm somewhat surprised you date females. I'm sure you were a very good slut. Does she lock you up when she's done with you?

2 weeks ago I met a chastity bottom and stayed the night at his place. Ate his beautiful ass that tasted like strawberries. He's a gorgeous femboy type who takes good care of himself, and looks younger despite being my age. Too bad he ghosted me.

Now I'm in touch with a similar type of guy, potentially to meet in the next week or two. Frustrated that I can't make it an ongoing thing with my exact type. This new guy wants me to piss on him and calls me "master", so maybe he's kinky enough to not get scared off.

It's all in my various profiles. I'm a male or non-binary pansexual leather bottom. I focus on what I like more than what I dislike, and there's a lot more of the former than the latter. There is enough negativity in my life outside of sexuality that I don't need to ruin sexy times with intrusive thoughts.

As a pansexual BDSM bottom I'm always looking for weird things. The thing that stuck out the most to me was the girl that wanted me to kill her. I did not oblige. We were very drunk.