Kampf gegen Windmühlen. Ich hab an der Front komplett aufgegeben. Gegen den Netzwerkeffekt kannst du nicht anstinken - bei Messengern noch viel mehr als bei sowas wie Reddit/Twitter.
Oft ist dann ein Vater aus Prinzip nicht in sowas drin und die Mutter muss alles managen. Oder die sind komplett out of the loop. Macht alles nur schwierig fürs Umfeld.
I'm all with you that you have to gauge the person you're interacting with. But if intolerance becomes the goto solution then we give up what we're fighting for. If my son shows intolerance to people of other skin color I will try civilized discourse first and not throw him out of my house at the age of 10. If he's an adult and all discourse has failed then I might show intolerance.
I agree but I wasn't referring to fascism but the principle.
But intolerance to intolerance should be the last resort and not the default. You should try all the other methods of civilized discourse first.
Some people use it for more than just entertainment and killing time. Like getting advice on certain topics like parenting or relationships. How to deal with a partner with certain conditions etc. You can't find that on lemmy.