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dazedandconfused
joined 1 year ago
Since Lemmy didn't have one yet, I created [email protected]. In the future, I might type of some of these experiences as longer stories there, and just link them here with a short tl;dr: summary. But also feel free to post your own stories there ;-)
I've been sick for about a week, but I'm finally starting to feel better tonight! However, last week I was up in Boston. And while I was traveling with family, I still had my own hotel room, soo... why not have a little fun right? But just a little:
- NYC Hinge date + sexy fun! Before I left the city I had a Hinge first date with a vers guy. I invited him to a museum invite I could take a +1 to. A lot of fun to have some cheese and champagne on the museum's dime :-P We had dinner in the neighborhood, and headed back to my place.
- Pretty quickly things got steamy, with lot of touching, and pretty good kissing.
- Guys about my size, a little leaner, a little less muscular. Still a nice chest to hold onto ;-)
- Moved to the bedroom. He isn't quite as hung as I am, but plenty big enough for a fun time.
- We start with him riding me, but I think after all the drinks I had had (2 + 2 + 1) that afternoon/evening, I wasn't really feeling it, so we just flipped.
- Our boy can go hard and just keep going. He was fantastic with topping. A lot of energy, and just hard enough to hit the right spots once I gave him some encouragement. It was inspiring. I lost track of time for how long he went at it. Eventually we both were feeling stiff so went for a more relaxing and intimate side-by-side thing.
- Like me, he's really into smiling, laughing, and even joking during sex. He remarked about that in the middle of fucking. It adds a lot to our chemistry together.
- We finished by touching each other, kissing, and getting down to swallow each others' loads when it was time.
- Was going to see him this week, but I'm still too sickkk :-(
- Oral fun night 1: a nice product designer who's been visiting Boston for a month from Mexico city came over to my hotel room well after midnight. Normal build, cute face. Enjoyed giving each other blowjobs -- his was not too too big, so it was easy for me to focus on technique and practice more ways for him to get new pleasurable sensations. Big balls too. We share some pretty big loads with each other. Just hung out and shared Boston/Cambridge travels tips and restaurant/ice cream recommendations for another hour or so :-)
- Oral fun morning 3: I woke up really early, and this guy showed up as just 83ft away on grindr. Tags hung, vers top, oral. I offered to come over and say a quick hello, and he asked, "How? With your mouth? :-)" and sure why not !
- Handsome guy visiting from Philadelphia for a work conference, who had just gotten in last night.
- Excellent kisser!
- Really nice and rock hard throughout our time together, which was a real delight. He's a bit bigger than me, so yeah he deserved to call himself hung ;-) it was more of a challenge than my friend on night 1.
- We kind of switched between who was in charge, which was fun for me, too.
- He was gently jacking me off while I sucked him, which turned me on even more. After he came and I swallowed his (surprisingly sweet) cum, he took him time focused on returning the favor :-D
- We exchanged info, apparently he comes to NYC a lot. We should probably flip fuck.
Sorry for not replying sooner:
- Cock rings, both the comfy and the restrictive kinds like a ball separator
- Masturbation sleeves
- A vibrating wand that can be held against the penis or scrotum, or even something which attaches to his penis/scrotum
- Prostate toys
- Dildos? π
I know there's way more, but these are just a few of the things that I enjoy.
I've never been edged like that. It sounds amazing. Like you shared, it looks like you need a lot of communication to be able to accomplish that. Nice!
Some nice naughty fun, but also a good chunk of way more chaste dating fun to share!
Naughty:
- A younger tall lean muscle guy was going for a jog in the neighborhood, invited him over to get a bj. Fun cock to suck on, not too big. He had a rough/dom side which was fun for our play. He needed to cum by jacking off, which I'm not a fan of, but I understand some guys have difficulty with that. Decent range
- My well-hung sub neighborhood friend really wanted us to get together again. I went over and locked him in chastity again, then had him suck on my cock for about 40 minutes. I would play with his balls or his hole at times. Feed him poppers, make out with him a little, too. He's been locked up for a week now while I was out of town. I told him to go to the gym and sauna and show off a little, just like he normally does. I'm waiting to hear back on how it went.
- Later that day, I went to visit a new friend in Brooklyn. Tall, blond, nicely muscled. We hung out in his apartment, played with his dog, made out, and got naked. Very fun to rim him. He wanted to bottom for me, but he didn't have any lube!! We tried without lube, but I could feel skin on my penis beginning to tear. So instead I had him finish the blowjob my sub friend started, and played with his nipples while he jacked off.
Nice, a bunch of first dates:
- Met a younger guy to check out Fotografiska, a photography museum which is closing in a couple of months. Had a yummy lunch at a nearby diner afterwards, including some legendary onion rings omg. He's cute, otter-type, nice legs, definitely would like to see again.
- Met a Long Island woman for coffee and snacks at this weird eclectic middle eastern + south asian + north african cafe. Nice conversation. Not sure if we're a good personality fit, but I asked her out to dinner next, and let's see. Gorgeous legs, sweet smile, and razor sharp intellect.
- Met a nurse in his neighborhood in Brooklyn for lunch. He showed me this cool cafe with some awesome local art and sculpture for sale. I'm tempted to be naughty and go buy this expensive vase I like. We chatted some more outside and had a few smooches. It was really fun to feel that even a couple of light kisses were enough to start getting me hard :-)
Observations:
- I do enjoy being dominant and a little rough. A lot. I don't need it for sure, but it's fun. A willing sub is an opportunity for me to be creative.
- Dates are really fun for me right now - whether they get physical or not. Though if they also get physical that's even better :-)
- I am getting aroused way more easily recently. I think I'm getting more comfortable with my own sexuality and vulnerability and it's paying off in how I feel and express affection and arousal. A few light kisses have never affected me like that so easily before.
Don't even ask about the sex.
I'm 100% asking about the sex.
I get that. So far I've appreciated just how hard a pounding a guy can take (and wants) compared to a woman, on average. Your concerns are valid and you can always take it slow and escalate to more kinky stuff as you build trust.
Fuck man. You go and fuck him good π₯ locked bottoms love the verbal/mindplay.
Why do you say "claims"? π
Also what do you want him to get?
Sounds like you have the loads cumming in like clockwork.
Cockwork π
I think I'm getting some of my mojo back, or maybe just getting better at knowing what I want, and when I want it?
- Finally met this guy from Beirut. I literally got into the city, reached my place, and I had an hour to kill before meeting friends. A Lebanon-based Polish tourist who regularly visits NYC finally coincided and wanted to finally bottom for me. Very slim, tall, smooth twinky type. I told him I don't have much time, wouldn't want to top but we should have some quick fun.
- But nah, once we got into it, we both wanted to fuck - he wanted it bad.
- The mechanics were great, loved his moaning. Wanted to kiss more while I was fucking, but also wanted to hear him moan, so did a bit of each until I came in him and I had him jack off while I was still fucking.
- Had a nice little chat, too. He's a nice guy <3
- Fun-sized bottom friend came over for slow oral, with unexpected ending. He's a small young shaved twinky guy, and it's fun to watch him do his thing. Smaller mouth and hands struggling with my dick are fun, too :-)
- And for the second time now, he ended up cumming from just the pleasure of sucking my cock and friction as he was rubbing on my bed. And wow cheers to him, it was a massive puddle of semen!
- He needed a little break, and we cuddled, and ultimately he felt bad but didn't have it in him to continue. Sad for me, but happy he really enjoyed.
- Which led to me still looking andβ¦
- Extended oral worship the same night. Finally connected with a guy in my neighborhood who has wanted to really take his time and suck my cock for a long time. Said he really wants to "serve" and I was happy to oblige. We had a drink and a little weed together, and he put on a playlist and went to work.
- Brilliant oralist. I don't know what he was doing with his mouth, I felt like I left my body at times. It was fun how we was sucking to the beat of the music at times. And barely/strategically using hands, which is exactly how I like it.
- This edging lasted over an hour. With me sitting on his couch and him down on the floor, head buried between my legs. It only ended when he finally decided to shift his pace/intensity, and he swallowed my load. It took me a while to catch my breath! Hung out, and we both appreciated getting to know each other, he says I can come by any time :-D
They have a place in my heart but not a special one. All the boys are nice. Just like I like more feminine and more masculine women, too π