My dad fell out of my life a couple decades ago and hasn't made much effort to be a part of it since.
I think it's great that you are spending time to learn about your daughter's.... Queer forrunners? Whatever we are to her.
Truly, I hope she doesn't really need us. Supportive parents gives her the best chance for that, I think. I hope that by the time she is leaving school and building her own life and identity, being trans is just a tiny part of her, and barely even noticable, because the fear and the barriers that we face today have fallen away.
I hope she learns about trans day of remembrance from a history book, because we don't need to hold it anymore.
I doubt it, but I so desperately hope that's the world she grows up to explore.
I like the change. Both more inclusive and more exact.