Serdan

I know the solution is to see a dietation, and only stock my home with healthy foods and go to the gym maybe but the truth is I can't really afford that

You don't need a dietician to do the second part and you don't need a gym membership to work out.

I was 210 pounds a few months ago. Now I'm 190 pounds. All I've changed is eating less fast food. If you're otherwise healthy it really is as simple as reducing calories.

If your mom is otherwise supportive, you should just tell her that you need to change your diet, both for your physical and mental health. If she doesn't respect that, you should, if it's safe, apply pressure.

There has been research along those lines. If you give someone twice the starting money in Monopoly, they'll still say they won due to skill.

Humans are ridiculous.

Well, you'd be wrong. Pedophilia is well studied. It's attraction to children, and there's a huge amount of variation in how that is expressed and how the psychology around it develops through a person's life. Baselessly claiming that all people with pedophilia are just rapists who want easy prey is unhelpful nonsense.

Is it seriously your contention that effective firefighting can't exist without a state?