I'll elaborate for him/her: mesh devices sold by untrusted companies with a profit model will almost surely be collecting your data.
The problem is not "mesh", it is the companies using a new, cool, buzzword to sell their spyware that is the problem.
They are basically enhanced repeaters that don't require a seperate network access point.
If you get a device that is primarily marketed as basic hardware, like the Asus router, you are more likely to avoid the collection. Bonus points if you can flash FOSS software to it, also like Asus, so yiu know it is clean. Regardless, use a VPN for external communications.
My home is small enough that mesh is unnecessary, but I'd buy another Asus device for mesh if it were necessary.
Well said... Two weeks before the equivalent i posted moments ago.