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Advice on finding a partner? in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 29 points 6 months ago (2 children)

Maybe a relationship will just come to you and maybe it won't. A lot of the advice you get in these kind of threads is like 'just be yourself' or 'don't be desperate' or 'be comfortable on your own' or whatever. None of that ever worked for me. I was never able to just be myself or be on my own without feeling lonely and desperate and that made me seem weird and off-putting to potential partners. Honestly it took recognizing my mental issues, getting serious about finding a solution to them, and working on them for a while before I was able to act like a normal human around someone I was attracted to. In the end what worked for me was a combination of Buddhist meditation and some kind of therapy. But everyone is different. YMMV.

On the other hand maybe you are perfectly comfortable in yourself, are handsome and charming, and have no trouble talking with women, but you just met some women with issues of their own. If so, just try to get out more and meet more people. In that case it's a numbers game and eventually you'll find the right one.

Historical fun fact in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 79 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Ok, I'll be that guy. Yes, the kid actually did win all these matches. Though it's not clear whether the old guys were masters, grandmasters, or just old.

Ubisoft revealed an AI NPC prototype at GDC and everyone online made fun of it in c/[email protected]

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

I think that would actually be really cool. You're walking through Whiterun and you hear some NPC saying "Did you hear, some guy just ate the soul of that dragon that attacked us." "What? That's ridiculous. Where are you hearing these dumb rumours?" "No, really, he killed the dragon then just sucked its soul right out." etc. etc. An LLM could at least make a conversation like that sound semi-plausible, and it could go on as long as you are listening. Then as the game goes on the rumours just get more and more wild. "I heard he can transform himself into a dragon and breathe fire." "Yeah, well I heard that he's the god of all the dragons sent to Tamriel to help them kill us all." Not that they couldn't have added that kind of thing with voice actors, but it would just be 'arrow to the knee' repetitive and get stale really fast.