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I am a 23 year old female with a IQ of 76. Ask me anything

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 59 minutes ago

Thank you for this AMA it is very interesting to get your viewpoint.

I have many questions, feel free not to answer them if you don't like them.

When have you discovered that you are different? What happened? Why did you take IQ tests?

Can you share story about something that is different between you and average people?

Is your memory worse or just the thinking process?

Do you have any idea why your IQ is so low? Is it just coincidence or something happened while you were young?

How can I recognize that someone has low IQ? How should I act when I meet someone with low IQ, should I use simpler sentences or simpler ideas?

Thank you.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago

Was the test administered by a psychologist? Were you evaluated for any learning disabilities?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

Have you given any thought to entering politics?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

No more questions but this was fascinating and you seem like a super cool person with a lot of depth. Thanks for being vulnerable here

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago

Thank you and you do too

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

How did you manage to win Georgia's 14th Congressional district??

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I see this is a big at some politician you don't like. Pretty funny

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago

Marjorie Taylor Greene, in case anybody was wondering.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

How is your memory or recall? Do you feel like you to write stuff down a lot?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 hours ago

It takes me a long time to get used to patterns. If I don't completely focus on one thing I forget about it. I get information mixed up easily and I forgot the little details about things. Sometimes I forget what I'm doing all together and I get overwhelmed easily.

Luckily I use my phone a lot to write things down which helps and if I don't do that I just write things down on my body.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 hours ago* (last edited 4 hours ago) (1 children)

For what it's worth, free IQ tests are notoriously bad for evaluating general intellectual capacity, and tend to evaluate visual pattern recognition.

On top of that, you can learn how IQ tests are evaluated and score higher on them in a matter of seconds.

For example:

The answers are in the diagonals.

For this example, on the diagonals are the number of dots.

For this example, on the diagonals are the arrow directions.

Having this knowledge can easily boost your IQ score by 10.

In any case, intellect has many different facets; memory retention, memory recall speed, emotional intelligence, motivation, visual/spacial, verbal, etc.

There are people who are Mensa certified geniuses who can't hold a conversation to save their lives, or boast to others about their score, which is... really dumb.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

Know what you're talking about. There's a guy on YouTube who's in a similar situation to me called Mark Malloy. He talks a lot about IQ maxxing shall we say.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I just found this video by him.

It perfectly encapsulates what I'm talking about, when I say motivation is a part of intelligence. A raw IQ of 150 is functionally useless, and letting that potential go to waste is... really dumb.

This guy Mark, is motivated to attain gainful employment so he can sustain himself, and is trying to improve his intellect in the meanwhile, which demonstrates a intuitive wisdom most people lack.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Yeah that's him...

I've been working on my motivation it's hard but I give myself goals. I would love to have a higher IQ somehow.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 1 hour ago)

I watched a few of Marks videos and I'm not convinced he is as stupid as he believes himself to be, just read the comments on his videos.

Through my life I've been told by people I'm smart, which gave me an ego, and lead me to being an asshole to people I deemed less intelligent.

Later in life I began to resent the association, and I almost reflexively deny any assertions that I am anything other than slightly above average.

As aforementioned, getting stuck on how intelligent you are is the wrong metric to evaluate your personal worth. I wish that instead of being told I'm smart, that people praised me for my effort.

For example, if there was a word I've wrote which you don't know the meaning of, look it up - that's a very simple way to improve your vocabulary, which helps to improve how you navigate your own mind.

I feel that encouraging growth is far more important than telling someone they have some kind of innate talent, and it's something I live by.

If I can offer one resource for you to study to "have a higher IQ", it's learning about logical fallacies.

To put it simply, people are stupid because they fail to recognize flaws in their own thinking. With the link I've given you, click on each fallacy and try to think of a time when you've committed that fallacy.

It can be a bit wordy, so don't worry if you don't entirely understand the definition. Try to infer the meaning by reading the examples in bold at the bottom of each fallacy.

Even very intelligent people are not immune from logical contradictions, so don't be disheartened if you begin to recognize you've got some bad habits.

And whatever you do, if you notice someone else committing these fallacies, keep it to yourself. Too many people learn basic epistemology (study of knowledge itself) and think they're capable of debating others by dismantling the other persons arguments by citing their fallacies. This is... (say it with me)... really dumb!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 hours ago (1 children)

What do you do for work? What level of education have you completed? Were the results a surprise? And most importantly, has it affected your self-esteem at all, or do you know how little an IQ test actually means? (As an example, I've taken a few for fun and got about double your score each time, but I haven't finished college and was a B- student at best).

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 hours ago (3 children)

"What do you do for work?"

I'm a burger flipper at Burger King.

"What level of education have you completed?"

I was a super senior at high school graduating at age 20 and I never went to university or college although I would like to.

"Were the results a surprise?"

Yes they were.

"And most importantly, has it affected your self-esteem at all"

I'm not capable of low self esteem. It's more like I feel shame and anger for it.

"or do you know how little an IQ test actually means?"

I hate people saying this. It's like if you were blind and everyone who could see told you that vision doesn't mean anything. I have seen first hand how IQ affects you. I remember how different I was to the other kids in my school. The way they could just learn things I couldn't. I've experienced how my IQ has singled me out from everyone else. Do you know what it's like to come to terms with the fact that no matter how hard you try you'll always be slower then everyone else? Do you know what it's like to come to terms with the fact that you'll never be a nurse, programmer or go to university/college no matter how hard you try? Do you know what it's like to come to terms with the fact that you'll never develop over the mental age of a teenager? No, you won't so fuck off with this corny bullshit about trying your hardest. Real life is not some cheesy sports movie where you really put your mind to something and overcome all the odds. That doesn't happen in the real world. Kid.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

It’s like if you were blind and everyone who could see told you that vision doesn’t mean anything.

It's more like if you were blind, tested your running speed, performed poorly, attribute all your problems to being a bad runner, then everyone tells you that running speed doesn’t mean anything.

I acknowledge that there's things that are more difficult for you and that negatively affects your quality of life, but it doesn't sound like those problems are the same ones that IQ tests are measuring. If you care to work on improving your situation, it's important to know what the actual problems are before you can even start trying to address them.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 1 hour ago

Thank you for your works. I do have other problems in my life I've never denied that.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago

Even if the IQ tests you took were accurate (probably weren’t), they test a very specific type of problem solving intelligence. That type of intelligence may be required for abstract reasoning like physics and maths, but it’s not necessary for being a successful human.

There are many other types of intelligence that are not tested for in that test. Other types of intelligence that can have a much bigger impact on one’s success.

One example is physical or spatial intelligence. My brother for example is just good with his hands, taking things apart, putting them back together. He’s a mechanic now, but this trait was apparent before he could talk - he used a screwdriver to take apart a chair, and he would pull out drawers to use them as a ladder to get up on the kitchen counter.

Another type of intelligence is social or emotional intelligence. Some very high IQ individuals would test very very low if this one had a test. But this can have a bigger impact on your relationships, on your life, and even on your career than the IQ type of intelligence.

Artistic and creative intelligence, athletic intelligence. There are many other kinds. Some people are really good at gardening or farming.

You can read and write, which would make you a genius scholar a few hundred years ago. Don’t worry about a number on a test. Just like your grades in school they don’t matter. It absolutely does not indicate that you won’t mature or that you’re inferior to anybody.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 2 hours ago

Right on - are there any jobs you'd rather be doing? I've been thinking of retraining to become an animal handler, lately 😆 I think you might be able to do that with a low IQ! Maybe that's more satisfying than flipping burgers.. Though I got a craving for a whopper now.

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