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[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

Now ask them about reversed mermaid

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

I would say that if anyone is upset about an older furry, then that person is living proof that furry is a sexualised fetish. Why else would it upset them?

[โ€“] [email protected] 32 points 3 months ago

I mean, the point of a mermaid isn't that it's a sexy looking fish, it's that other than its tail, it looks like beautiful human women. In some stories, sailors don't even realize they're taking to mermaids because their tails are underwater. Also, mermaids were generally considered bad omens or malicious entities, and when they did seduce humans, it was usually to kill them, so it's not like the folklore was very pro-mermaid sex.

[โ€“] [email protected] 24 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Being with a mermaid is also an outlandish idea

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I was gonna make a joke that it's also an idea that's on so many street corners and coffee cups. However after googling I found out that it's a siren on the Starbucks logo and not a mermaid. My joke fails on both humour and fact.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

There's a difference?

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago (4 children)

What is a siren, but a mermaid?

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 3 months ago (2 children)

I went to dragon con one year, people were dressed in all sorts of costumes even though it's not a furry con. And I know the hotels where the con is are incredibly hard to book. That said just once I want some senior executive to accidently book a room in one because he has some meeting with a potential client of something and just so happen to click it at the right time.

He shows up and is completely bewildered by all the people in costumes. "you'll never believe it mark. I rode down the elevator with a robot and I swear to God... Tiny from Bob's burgers"

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago

You should be a TV writer.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

My brother in Christ, werewolves existed for at least 150 years and shape shifting goes back hundreds more. A beast that becomes a person... What could that possibly be for? A person becoming a beast is easy and the not weird part of folk history that didn't upset any kind of established morals. Violence is a part of life. Hot wolf dick that escapes into the night after making sweaty sheets? More difficult to keep as an oral tradition. Well, in stories at least.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago

Egyptian and Mesopotamian ruins are full of furry pics, it's literally the oldest fandom in the world.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Wouldn't a mermaid be called a scaley?

[โ€“] [email protected] 23 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Nope, different nerd culture entirely. Seriously, they have their own conventions, instead of fursuits they do custom silicone tails and train to swim in them, have contests and pagents and things. There's basically no overlap between the two communities. Scaleys are folk in the fursuit community who do dragon and lizard personas.

I have odd connections. Being in the film industry I have friends through props depts who do furry cons and one of my coworkers does underwater photography for people in the Mermaid subculture.

[โ€“] [email protected] -5 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Because a lot of furry hate is just socially acceptable homophobia.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I don't think the broader populace has any link between the two of them in their minds.

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (12 children)

...TIL furries have any relation to gay people (except I don't actually believe they do)

[โ€“] [email protected] 0 points 3 months ago (13 children)

You do know that being gay and being furry ain't mutually exclusive right, but I guess whatever justification you can find for letting your true feelings out.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 43 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

To be fair, I think people looked at the folks who were into mermaids as outlandish too. "Been around for a long time" doesn't mean the same thing as "totally accepted socially".

[โ€“] [email protected] 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

But weren't mermaids seen as dangerous, irresistible sirens also. So the blame was on the evil mermaid, not the person.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Shaggy the pirate over here

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Picture this, we were both butt naked, banging on the sea bed floor.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

I came to say this. When has being with a mermaid been an acceptable thing. Furries are much more accepted I think than that just in numbers alone.

[โ€“] [email protected] 7 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Fucking a fish is ok. I come from a long line of fish fuckers. My father fucked fish, his father did too. It's those sheep fuckers you cant trust.

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago (1 children)

blackout! someone told me you were dead?

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Not dead, been busy doing "something"

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

oh yeah, im sorry. they said you sleep with the fishes. checks out.

[โ€“] [email protected] 8 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago

Aye, right near the beach boy-ee!

[โ€“] [email protected] 27 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Furries aren't as recent as people tend to think either I might point out, the subculture has existed in some form since like the 80s to my understanding, it's just more popular and visible these days.

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago

We had a general fen con in the area that was known for two large groups. furries and klingons. furries grew so big they did their own dedicated con. to bad because we had two dance rooms and the fur one had the ac maxed. was so great. dance in the regular one till you are sweating like a pig then move to the fur one.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

A lot longer than that. Let me dig and see if I can find the reply someone sent me a while ago

Edit: Tracked it down

[โ€“] [email protected] 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Oh I mean, yeah, anthro characters are probably older than civilization, but I meant the furry fandom as a specific subculture rather than specifically the subject it is centered around.

[โ€“] [email protected] 90 points 3 months ago (3 children)

Because people didn't dress up as mermaids and go to cons and express how deep down inside they truly are a mermaid, and have a high likelihood of fucking someone else who also felt the same way.

[โ€“] [email protected] 5 points 3 months ago

I happened to be staying in Key West at the same time as a convention. There absolutely are people who believe they are mermaids.

[โ€“] [email protected] 16 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Uh... I hate to tell you this but people absolutely dress as mermaids and do conventions... There's a whole home industry of people who make custom silicon tails.

https://aquamermaid.com/blogs/news/mermaid-convention?srsltid=AfmBOoofN82kC8kQ_774E8rKcE1-Mi9CBZXEfvIqLckEK1cq7bXWHFum

https://www.themernation.com/silicone-tail

[โ€“] [email protected] 3 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Huh. New kink unlocked.

[โ€“] [email protected] 20 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 25 points 3 months ago (2 children)

Not all furries believe themselves to be or want to be animals. It's a simple interest in anthropomorphic animal art. You're thinking of therians.

[โ€“] [email protected] 2 points 3 months ago

Not to be confused with therians, a taxonomic group.

[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I don't think many people had "a thing" for mermaids though. It was just another human creature with boobs. I don't think most people thought about it any deeper than that

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[โ€“] [email protected] -5 points 3 months ago

Guy getting with a mermaid is straight.

[โ€“] [email protected] -5 points 3 months ago (1 children)
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