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[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

You know how some days you seem to have really great focus and get all your work done so well you surprise yourself? This is not one of those days. At least there's only about an hour left, then I'm free to go home and hope my lack of focus does not extend to forgetting to put the bins out tonight.

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

slept really good the last couple of nights, but had an emotionally draining day yesterday. Only thing that seems to help is music. I feel like I could put my head on a pillow and sleep in 3 second.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago (4 children)

I have had a realisation that todays kids will never experience a life where they are not under constant observation. And it’s probably willingly. Social media, tracking aps on phone from parents, data collected on their preferences for any media they engage with, smart watches that monitor movement and sleep, etc.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (2 children)

that will change as they see the abuses that can and will happen

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

At least I hope so. Some Euro countries have already had law cases about excessive underage exposure. But I can see it going the opposite way in the US

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[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

My daughter's at Coles and she texts me to ask if I want anything. So I sent a shitload of texts back in a row. Get donuts. Cinnamon donuts. Or whatever. And biscuits. Any biscuits. I don't care which ones. You want your dad to pick you up. Hello.

Pay backs ☺

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

Had such a weird interaction today. I've been trying to buy Road Dogs by Elmore Leonard. Book Grocer had it and have had it for ages, I finally took the plunge because I can pick it up from the warehouse when I'm in Melbourne. I put it in my cart, but before I decided to buy it, I did a quick check on google to see if I could get it cheaper anywhere and saw there was a signed copy on ebay. He's one of my favourite writers and it's pretty cheap but coming from the USA and the shipping was more than the book (go figure). I asked the guy if he'd consider shipping with someone else who might be cheaper (instead of ebay global or whatever it's called) and he replied overnight not having a clue how to do that so I figure it's not meant to be.

Go to bookgrocer and Road Dogs is gone. Not available. They must have sold it which is so highly coincidental that it gets sold on the day I finally decide to buy it. But you snooze you lose, right?

So I check on facebook marketplace and some guy in Balaclava has it and is selling it. So I message him today asking if it's available.

He says yes.

I ask how much.

He says $7.

I figure bargain. I asked when is he free, I'll be in Melbourne over the weekend.

He tells me when he's free.

Great. I'll grab the book.

Then he asks where I am coming from.

I tell him Bundoora.

He says it's a bit far.

I said that's fine, I'll have a car.

He says 'but if you factor in time and petrol, it will cost more than shipping which is $10.90.'

I got a bit annoyed because who cares so I said, don't worry, I'll get it elsewhere.

Dude talked himself out of a sale (though I figure he makes a couple of bucks on the shipping so his $7 turns into $10 maybe).

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Yeah,I attempted to help a FB friend of friend with an utterly unreasonable budget for their request with other options. Resulted in combo of /r/choosing beggars and serious questions about mental health

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 months ago (4 children)

I know this is news to exactly nobody, but job hunting sucks balls.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

We should start a support group.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Create a generic cover letter/resume combo file and apply for a bunch of jobs through recruitment companies at the moment. It's the end of the month so they'll all be looking to maximise their commission. Aim for jobs that have been up for close to two weeks as well, they'll be closing soon

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I hear that's a good way to get a job and a raise

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Unclear when the 'get a job' step kicks in though.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

sign this or i bite

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[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (2 children)

Whilst I'm positive about my plans for the future in general I'm a bit apprehensive about moving house too. It's all the little changes, stuff like where the teaspoons are is pretty much muscle memory now, I've been in the same place for 18 years now so the little routines are quite ingrained. Plus I have to get used to sharing space again and all the compromises that entails. All while reassuring a cat and dog who will also be stressed by the transition.

At least by the time everything is sorted out to actually make a move it should be Spring, so I won't have to contend with either freezing cold or boiling hot temperatures.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Plus I have to get used to sharing space again and all the compromises that entails.

Honestly it really comes down to people. The people have made for some of the best times of my life living in sharehouses. But conversely, laying on the couch and finding a condom wrapper you didnt use is NOT fun. Living with teenagers sucks.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I managed to mostly miss the sharehouse situations, other than a year in student residence. The idea of a living in a standard sharehouse fills me with horror. I'm moving in with Mum which will make it a bit different, especially as she is starting to need help so I will over time end up taking over all the work of cooking etc. I've spent many years perfecting my techniques for cooking for one, now I have to cook for two, plus take into account someone else's preferences (and dental challenges). A sharp learning curve awaits - along with a major re-evaluation of my kitchen container collection! Hopefully she retains ability to do some cooking for as long as possible though - even if I have to partially pre-pepare meals in advance the idea of being able to go home after work to dinner underway at least occassionally definitely appeals.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

It will be fine.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 months ago (2 children)
[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Fen would like to offer Mickey some warm pizza. cat & pizza cushion

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

It's Mickey's oodie now.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (2 children)

hm. Found an ipad in the middle of a normally VERY busy road, undamaged so I must have just come across it as it went flying off someone's roof (it was near a sharp turn) . No neighbouring houses ping a wifi pickup, anyone know how find my works on these things and if it needs a network connection to work?

Failing that, how to get in without wiping? Just wanna get it on the network, I've taken a photo with it with my number and a note saying CALL TO PICK UP YOUR TABLET since it's gonna sync to cloud

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Apple are surprisingly unhelpful with this stuff. I called them about found airpods and they were very "meh" about contacting their own customer.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

send an email to the signed in apple ID address? Or just take it to the police station.

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