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Everyone complaining about the gross vibes of the post, which like yeah, true. But also even within the framing of the post itself it's just bad. The second and third lines are basically "realise X". The third line adds nothing of value to the original OP's intent.
If you insist on it being a girl, then yeah, it's too late. Adult relationships have their own brand of sweet and romantic.
If ur 30+ you can have romantic moments with women, which is nice.
Don't limit the guy. He can have romantic moments with men, too.
Regardless of gender, your 30s is a perfect time to date cute single people who just finished their first divorce.
Romance is different when you're both old enough to have so much life experience under your belt. It isn't the same. Not saying it's better or worse, but it's absolutely different.
I don't know if this helps, but I didn't meet my wife until I was in my forties. You have time.