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[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Lemmy is safer than Reddit to me, and it looks like other people here would probably agree.

Reddit is full of haters, bots, and spam.

Lemmy doesn’t have any of that.

You can engage in social discussion better here.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

I prefer Lemmy, but unfortunately it is missing a lot of the communities I liked on Reddit, and there doesn't seem to be as much content. When I'm looking for information on a specific topic I'll still check out Reddit but I haven't logged in since the Reddit drama and don't plan to. I do hope Lemmy gets bigger, though.

[–] [email protected] 16 points 5 months ago

Reddit by far was a better experience; more content, better moderation, less negativity.

I’m still here on Lemmy, though, in hope of it getting better (and it definitely scratches the same itch as Reddit without the corporate arrogance).

That said, even though it annoys me, I do find myself getting exposed to a wider array of opinions on Lemmy that I just never saw on Reddit. And while I disagree with a lot of it it’s probably healthier for things to be that way. The tankies, though … so many tankies.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

Honestly, at this point I kinda prefer to go on Reddit. I'm getting tired of all the tech/FOSS talk and there's so much doom and gloom on here it just bums me out.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

Reddit, but I won't post or engage there on principle.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

Reddit continuously grew more toxic with astroturfers, bots, and other bad-faith actors after the protest. I deleted all of my accounts the day they went public since that was the previously planned line-in-the-sand for me. I only visit periodically every few days to check my local towns subreddit for news. It would be nice to have a bigger community with Lemmy but I certainly don't miss the constant arguments.

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 months ago

I haven’t posted on Reddit since they treated third party app devs like shit. I’m done with that site.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 5 months ago

I avoid reddit out of principle even though I would prefer it. It's only going down hill from here on out and they've neglected their app so much it's too painful to attempt to use it.

My main reasoning is content and sometimes the comments. Content here is a bit slow but a lot commenters are kind of a-holes and painfully obnoxious. Especially from lemmy.ml, always a little anxious when I comment.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 5 months ago

Lemmy, and I'm never going back. I just wish we had the abundance of content that Reddit does. There's a lot of communities I miss.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Honestly I'm engaging more on lemmy in comments but if you manage to create a nice list of fun subs to follow on reddit a lot of complaints about bots and stuff are less problematic. Then again I also follow some Dutch subs and they seem to have less bots with the language barrier and all.

Lemmy does seem to be more negative though. A lot of doom and gloom here. I'm not really into Linux but I'll admit that windows and Microsoft ain't great. However the amount of complaining about how shit Microsoft is on stead of being enthusiastic about Linux baffles me. And you see these things in other communities too. The reddit helldivers community seems to be a bunch of memes and the lemmy oke a bunch of complaints.

Then again my comments seem to actually reach people on Lemmy so I am more active here.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Lemmy. Though I do check out the live formula 1 race thread on Reddit when there's a race on. There is also one on lemmy, but it's pretty dead.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Lemmy for good content and discussion. Reddit still has niche fan communities that will probably never migrate over here, but I can always hope.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

Browse both Reddit (stealth) and Lemmy. But I post only on Lemmy

[–] [email protected] 20 points 5 months ago (2 children)

honestly, I preferred reddit. But I'm here out of principle.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 5 months ago

Size really does matter for sites like this. Reddit still hosts many smaller subs for niche topics that often have limited toxicity. Lemmy can't match it yet unfortunately.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Scrolled through a ton of comments but honestly this sums it all up for me. Lemmy isn't large enough to support niche memes and content.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

I went back to reddit after finding a working patch that allows me to continue using 3rd party reddit app; reddit is Fun. I visit this site once a month just to check it out.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

I deleted my Reddit account - way too toxic, too much racism (Russia-hate).

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

Lemmy, teddit and libreddit

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

What’s a ReDdiT?

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

I deleted 2 Reddit account with over 10M combined karma during the shit show last year. Have never gone back. Lemmy is a million times better, even if I'm missing some of my local communities.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Still stuck between both, but when I’m on reddit I’m using a sideloaded version of Apollo with my own API key while logged out, so theoretically they can’t actually collect any data.

Reddit is obviously more active, even though a huge chunk of that activity is bots, but I like it here better. My only complaint is that my home page is weird sometimes and doesn’t show posts newer than a day or two.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

Focusing on the people and communities, since takes like "Lemmy has no ads" or "reddit has more content" are so obvious that there is zero point in sharing them, I would say Lemmy is better. I think the quality of discourse is a lot higher and people are more likely to type longer, thought out and educated (or well intentioned) comments. If I were to put it really simply, I'd say Lemmy's community is more centred around discussion, whereas reddit is centred around reaction.

However, one issue with Lemmy is that fringe groups and views are overrepresented (particularly left-leaning ones), which can result in an echo-chamber effect in many discussions. I find pile-on attempts, or accusations of fascism, Nazism and right-wing trolling, are a lot more common here towards users who don't immediately join in with a far left circlejerk or attempt to bring a little more nuance or critical thinking to a discussion. Dylan Marron, host of the podcast 'Conversations With People Who Hate Me', once said in an interview that social media pile-ons from people who are actually on your own side hurt a lot more than pile-ons from people who fundamentally disagree with you and I think there's a lot of truth to that. It frustrates me that some Lemmy users shutdown and try to "other" people the moment they have a minor or semantic disagreement with them, instead of taking the time to hash it out or just politely agreeing to disagree. It's kind of ironic that federation allows communities to isolate themselves, yet instead these people remain federated with everyone and then get really offended and outraged when they're confronted with world views that even slightly differ from their own.

But anyway, that type of person is still a minority and Lemmy is, for the most part, a significantly better environment than reddit for polite and intelligent discussion.

[–] [email protected] 23 points 5 months ago

I haven't used reddit since the announcement of the API changes

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Mostly on Lemmy with Voyager, and sometimes check Reddit with Libreddit (until it lasts).

Best of both worlds.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 months ago

Lemmy is better, but the communities I care the most about and want to give the most to aren't on lemmy, so I don't really have the luxury of using it quite as much as I'd like. I do like it here, though

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Doesnt matter reddit kicked me out, so...

[–] [email protected] 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I like Lemmy, but it's too quiet, I often only see a dozen new posts total daily.

[–] [email protected] 14 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Can't doomscroll infinitely. Point for Lemmy

[–] [email protected] 1 points 5 months ago

If you wanna do that gotta go to tiktok

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

I prefer Lemmy but I find content and user base lacking

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Only lemmy. I visit reddit maybe once a week now

[–] [email protected] 12 points 5 months ago

I much prefer Lemmy, when RIF shut down I migrated and never looked back. Lemmy isn't as crowded as Reddit became and reminds me of how Reddit used to look and feel.

I also signed up to Mastodon and between the two (Lemmy and Mastodon) get all the information and entertainment I ever got from Reddit without all the dickheads that now populate Reddit.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 months ago

By now, Lemmy, hands down. I do sometimes end up on reddit from searching for stuff, and I check every now and then if I got any messages on my old accounts just in case someone wants to reach out, but overall - even without niche communities, Lemmy is just the better experience for me, personally.

[–] [email protected] 24 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I prefer lemmy but miss the niche communities. The Swedish national community for instance, roleplaying communities, niche game communities etc.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Same. The thing lacking is user base and content. Also a backlog of older content as knowledge source, but that would come overtime with through the former.

As far as usability goes Iemmy is just as good as reddit was for me. My instance (lemme.ee) is stable and the app experience (currently "connect") is just as smooth as it was for reddit (where I used "relay").

I sadly have to admit that I don't contribute enough in terms of creating and posting threads.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 months ago

Reddit was realy god in my local areal, so thats what immissinhg. Lemmy,isnt just there yet. Not many from my area. So yir i like Lemmy for the lack of adds, and for notsellinhg my data

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