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What is bothering you right now? (lemmy.world)
submitted 9 months ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]
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We’re autistic, and one of the characteristics of being autistic is that we feel things deeply. On the positive side, when we are happy, we feel immense joy compared to others. On the negative side, we feel painful emotions more strongly than others as well. Because of this, many of us have been invalidated, insulted, or pushed away when all we were wanting was to share what we were going through and get support. Maybe even a really tight hug and someone telling us that it makes sense that we feel that way.

While we can’t give hugs, we can help each other by sharing our pain and having others help us through it. So here is that post. What’s bothering you? Why? Tell us.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

This planet has too many humans.

Note that I said this planet has and not there are. Because I am a misanthrope, not a monster.

I just see so much stupidity out there, so much anti-human/selfish alt-right politics and so much hate-based religion that is only designed to hurt/control/kill others and so many people stuck in intellectual latrines without even the desire to get out of them and holding up cultivated ignorance like it’s a point of pride.

If I had the money to move to a mountain property in some temperate rainforest where I had a house and a large garden that could produce most of my yearly food and a few tens of thousands of books, I would gladly go months at a time without seeing anyone. Better yet if it’s in a secluded valley that doesn’t even look like it exists except on maps or from the air, and an access road that looks utterly uninteresting such that no-one even thinks of going down it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

Well, since you asked, I will mention some things.

Firstly, I am tired of being infantilized. So many people have done this to me in my own life. People who call themselves friends and family who want me to succeed and do well. It's makes me extremely enraged. I am very sick of people belittling me in this fashion. I absolutely hate it. Can't people just give me some respect and autonomy as my own self? I don't understand the obsession with wanting to control other people. In fact I am very tired of it. I feel people do not respect me.

Secondly, I feel very lonely, and have very few genuine friends. I have some online friends who are good. But very few irl. In fact, I am wanting more autistic friends. I am planning on going to social groups for autistic people. I am hoping this works out for me. I won't lie, I am nervous about it.

Thirdly, why is finding a job that is suitable to my sensory needs so difficult for me? I am tired of it. I listened to people for too long on what I should do with my life. I bitterly regret doing this. I made a lot of decisions based on what people thought I should do. This was all infantilization, and it was more what these people wanted me to do. I'm really fed up, people suck.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Virtual Hugs to all.

My story is too long to share, abusive aunt/uncle and soon to be homeless, lost my mom recently. It’s been tough.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I used to be homeless. I am sorry it's coming up for you. I wish the safest, smoothest, shortest homelessness stint for you.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

Thanks for the positive wishes. The plan is to live in my car and travel. Eventually finding raw land to call home.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I have to deal with queerphobic and ableist people regularly :(

[–] [email protected] 0 points 8 months ago

That deeply sucks. I used to have that and luckily got rid of those people in my life and found a cool LGBTQ+ gaming community that I'm now part of.

Hope you'll be free too at some point.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

I have to deal with queerphobic

Imagine caring that people have sex differently from you.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

Let's be honest, the people who want to control other people's sex lives probably do so because they have no sex life themselves ¯\⁠_⁠(⁠ツ⁠)⁠_⁠/⁠¯