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When I was 16 I had my first job at a shitty fast food restaurant, and on the first day my manager told me, "The difference between a good job and a great one is often just a couple minutes "
20 years later It still pops into my head whenever I'm working on a project, or work task, or even just stuff around the house. Usually it's right when I'm about to quit or give up and call it "good enough". And for the most part, I've found it to be true.
"Erfahrung heiΓt gar nichts. Man kann seine Sache auch 35 Jahre lang schlecht machen." - Kurt Tucholsky
Which DeepL translates to
"Experience means nothing. You can do a bad job for 35 years."
Not strictly life changing, but a very valuable reminder, if you need to deal with 'that' kind of person.
This and the difference between decades of experience and experience that's decades old.
Sometimes a person that's 30 years in a field or profession just managed to avoid getting fired for 30 years.
The mind is the athlete.
"Do what you can, where you are, with what you've got." - Teddy Roosevelt
"There's a crack in everything, that's how the light gets in." - Leonard Cohen
"Perfect is the enemy of good." - unknown
"Fear leads to anger, anger leads to hate, hate leads to suffering." - Yoda
"In the corporate world, nobody has any compassion, ever." - A friend told me as I was about to take my first real job. Brutal and maybe exaggerated, but exactly what I needed to manage my own expectations.
A Corporation is:
( DarkHexad:
( all this to say that the legalistically-enacted-treason of granting "personhood" to corporations killed strategic-viability for all countries, and the highjacking-of-the-world's-economy AND the world's-governments, by corporations, is global unfolding proof.
What should have happened, is a separate category of pseudopersons should have been created, with systematically-limited rights, including prohibiting the things from interfering in elections,
but that would have required some real integrity & spine... )
( finally, for anybody so young/naive as to believe that charities are inherently-good, go volunteer in the management of one for a few years, & then see how you view integrity.. )
The big lez show. It a comedy on youtube that you can watch now for free. It's one of, if not the, best series I've watched and, although strange at times, is unbelievable deep. Specifically, what stuck with me was as when lez, the main character, asks sassy, his friend, how he's supposed to achieve his dreams and be happy in a world that's fucked up, and sassy tells him, "what's the first thing anyone does to start they're day? You wake up."
βDo you miss the person or do you miss the memories?β
It really helps me get over friendship breakups and cope in a more reasonable way, since most of the time I just miss the memories associated with the person.
"being trans isn't a mental illness and it's ok to be yourself"
Of course it's an identity you are born with. Whoever says it's one is themselves suffering from mental illness. Probably one of the ones mentioned below by my assistant.
"This too, shall pass"
"Gentoo can be easy or hard, depending on how you look at it"
Now I really need to hear how you look at it...
I just assume it's easy with instructions. It's turned out well till now
check out Funtoo, instead of Gentoo:
it's the guy who began Gentoo, doing an improved version.
I've heard about Funtoo, will try it out
" I use Arch btw."
My favourite is:
If you're scared to spell out a scary, bad word, find another word to use instead of trying to hide it behind similar characters.
https://youtu.be/npkeecCErQc?si=gYzjaai7eZEoJ5tq
Yellow Parenti. Helped to remove myself from obsession over optics and just do what helps people.
Here is an alternative Piped link(s):
https://piped.video/npkeecCErQc?si=gYzjaai7eZEoJ5tq
Piped is a privacy-respecting open-source alternative frontend to YouTube.
I'm open-source; check me out at GitHub.