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Was a window washer for years. If you work for yourself the pay can be good... really good, like 6 figures part time good.
If you get routine work from local businesses you can just show up when it's convenient, do your thing, get paid, and decide if you want to hit another one of your jobs or call it for the day.
Great, honest work.
Get into a trade, and start your own business maybe? Like carpentry etc. You gotta learn and it's a life long process since every job is different, but I've gained some much needed autonomy this way. The job is done when you are done, and that's when you get paid.
It's not for everyone, and takes some capitol and experience so that's a fairly large barrier to do this, but after 16 years I've finally gotten some much needed freedom.
"Is there a job that will pay me a full wage without requiring me to sit at a desk all day because I'm 'supposed to'?"
"Yeah, just invest 16 years in learning a trade and building a business, you can totally work 4 hour days."
What is with the comments here? Did you even read the post?
IT or software development.
As someone in the field. I assure you, you do not work just a few hours and then go home. Software development take infinite time and any well run shop will definitely notice if you work a half day by your output vs others. IT is even worse since problems are basically constant.
I guess you can work at badly run shops, but enjoy being laid off and then failing to get a job eventually from having a stale resume.
failing to get a job eventually from having a stale resume.
People have been saying this but I have yet to encounter such issues as a network engineer or sysadmin. I'm going to dodge this recruiting hell others are willing to go through until the day I die. More than 2 rounds of interviews are just HR buffoonery. Expecting expertise in every single branch of a field is nonsense and only accomplishes that applicants lie on their resumes. There are days when everything is running smoothly and all I have to do is sent 3 emails out of home office and there's nothing wrong with that.
For software engineer resume rot is definitely a thing. Everything has a 5 year timer on it even thr stuff that doesn't out right die. C# has been around for like 20 years something like that but try to only know about the ecosystem from more than 5 year ago and you're gonna have a bad time.
I can't speak on network or sysadmin stuff, but I do know from a coworker friend that they get paid way less are are considered more expendable, so you're probably right that it's work that doesn't change much. Still I'm surprised to hear you say that you have a lot of downtime or maybe I have only worked at trashfires
I've been around for a while and there are plenty of IT Jobs that'll burn you out but there are also super chill positions. My last job change was a downgrade money wise and my boss who I was supposed to replace soon made fun of me for that decision but he missed his daughter growing up because he was working 24/7. She's an alcoholic now and doesn't want anything to do with him but "if you want to succeed you have to make sacrifices" he always said. The guy next door to my office literally died in his sleep after being completely stressed out for a year. Heart just stopped. Mid fifties. I quit shortly after. I now only take jobs that are chill as fuck because I've learned from their mistakes.