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First of all, I don't mean this post as a complaint, maybe more of a warning?

There is teenagers on the fediverse. Most of them don't share their age, for hopefully obvious reasons. I'd say that a lot of the accounts which do a lot of posting/commenting are run by teenagers


because most adults probably wouldn't have the time for that much posting.

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word, the people who are good at technology, usually are very good at it.

most of my friends (most of which don't know the difference between a laptop and a desktop) could understand the fediverse as a concept perfectly when I explained it to them irl.

So, if you're in a really stupid argument with someone, try to remember that there is a small chance they are 14.

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[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago (1 children)

There's neither women nor non-adults on the internet.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

In fact, there's no one on the internet. Its all bots except for you.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago

Damn, I suspected as much. The NSFW stuff, tho

[–] [email protected] 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word, the people who are good at technology, usually are very good at it.

"Young people bad!" This paragraph has nothing to do with the rest of the post.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

As a young person, this generation sucks at technology.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 4 days ago (1 children)

While the young people of this generation are generally useless when it comes to something more complicated than microsoft word

Generalizations and eager bootlicking of generational propaganda isn't helpful at all.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I am literally speaking from experience, as a young person.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

I am literally telling you generalizations aren't helpful. I don't care about your age.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago
[–] [email protected] 4 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Some are easy to spot because they don't understand that being apologetic has little to do with apologizing, for example. 😅

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)
[–] [email protected] 1 points 3 days ago

Found the teen! Yo guise, I caught one live! 😂

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I was smarter than the rest of you all when I was a teen. It wasn't until I became an adult did I get this stupid.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

Hey, fuck you for calling adults stupid. Some of us have been stupid the whole time! Edit: /s

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago

No, we've definitely gotten dumber as time has gone on. Especially socially; interpersonal skills have basically vanished since I was in high school.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 5 days ago

Maybe, but I was on the internet as a teen and that went fine, being careful is a general thing in life.

But more importantly: adults have a phone and use it during work ALL the time. So I’m not so sure about the average age of the people commenting on here.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago) (2 children)

Surprise, surprise. Some chunk of Reddit annoyances stem from kids running around amok.

Then moderators make many stupid rules to try to increase quality and overmoderation takes hold

In short time it becomes increasingly annoying to browse let alone post to get past the anti teen rules filter. Not to mention all the young hormones commenting some stuff at you like it is school break slander or smh

One can always change instance though so it isn’t doom and gloom. The kids will have Lemmy.world and nice, enjoy it and have fun. It is the club penguin of Lemmy instances. We knew this would happen

[–] [email protected] 3 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Then moderators make many stupid rules to try to increase quality and overmoderation takes hold

This is so true. One of the best decisions I made during my tenure as mod of /r/StarTrek was changing the rules to be spirt-based instead of language-based. People will literally try to lawyer their way around the language of any rule, and it leads to mod burnout when they are getting drawn into rules-debates when it's obvious the person is just trying to get around the spirit of the community's purpose.

For example we had a rule that was literally just "be nice". There's no wriggling around that because it's not some legal text. If someone is ""concerned"" about a request to "be nice" or "be honest", they are not someone we wanted to be around anyway. These are discussion communities, not civil society, not everyone has a right to participate in every single one of them.

As you said the beauty of the fediverse is that each instance can have it's own preferred method of discussion.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (1 children)

Great comment, great moderation. Also by the way it has come to my attention that your instance bans/warns users that merely upvote discovery hate posts? Or was it some other Star Trek instance?

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I know this comment is satire (well done... I think) but I want you to it hurt me deep in my bones.

Cheers

I'm clearly not paying enough for a therapist.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago)

I am sure you can get a loyal customer discount, after all you were a moderator

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago

I don't think all, or even most, of the low quality content comes from kids.

[–] [email protected] -1 points 5 days ago

Play with fire, get burned.

If you can't take it, get the fuck out.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

WHAT!!!??

TEENAGERS??

ONLINE?????

Brooo I had no idea... how could this happen? I never would've guessed there could be teenagers despite at one point being one and using the internet. I get you're probably pretty new to being online but like come on, the rest of the world doesn't discover things at the rate you do...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I am a teenager.

Most people assume fedi has no one under the age of 20.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 4 days ago

I never would've guessed 🙄

[–] [email protected] 2 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Get back to r/teenagers, where you belong!

But seriously, thanks for the reminder.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 4 days ago

[email protected] has like 60 people on it.

Also, there's no way I'm outing myself as a teenager on my main account.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago (1 children)

*Are. Not trying to be a jerk if English isn't your first language. Teenagers is a plural noun.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago

English is my first language, I have no excuse.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 5 days ago

Odd post, but checks out

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago

It should not be that surprising. Many teenagers are really smart, curious and will find their way here. That said I realise your warning is well intentioned; I hope Lemmy remains a more civil place than Reddit became over the last ten years, for everyone; teenagers included.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 days ago (1 children)

But don’t assume everyone who is very active is a teenagers.

Some of us aren’t ;).

And you don’t have to understand federation to use lemmy. I’ve brought a couple of gen-z ers here. Get them to download voyager. Voyger automatically suggests lemm.ee for account creation. And then you just use it like reddit. Super simple.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 5 days ago (1 children)

I don't assume all of them are.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

Knowing a couple of the most active accounts. None of them are teenagers, in all cases middle aged men.

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