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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (7 children)

She’s Sarahsplaining how frugal she is with L’s party planning. So many words so little substance as per usual. Who the F gets nervous about throwing a kids birthday party? She’s saying she’s nervous about how the party is going to come together. L got to watch TV for her calendar birthday treat so I can’t imagine she has big expectations for her lazy ass mother (if 4 year olds have expectations 🙂). What miss shallow is nervous about is if her influencer friend guests will praise her. She says such stupid crap. She has no confidence what so ever. She has to prove she’s not spending on her kids party cuz she wants people to like her but she keeps lying about her appearance and lives a purely wasteful lifestyle. Spend the money on L - who cares?!

[–] [email protected] 14 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Does she not know how to look up an item in the store app, and it'll tell you exactly where it is?! Why is she so incapable of helping herself? How does she have four kids?!

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[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

That’s exactly why she’s saying this! And wow that photo is nothing like the real life photos people have posted of her! She’s a horrible person.

[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

She’s very manic? She just babbles on like crazy. Like do people really care about her throwing a massive overblown party for her 4 year old? We all know NK has prob planned the whole thing and she’s told Sarah to go out and buy certain things bc she’s useless. Who even is this party for, does L even care at the end of the day? She just wants to show off for Instagram that she cares about her kid one day a year. Poor kid doesn’t even have any real friends to invite to this lavish themed party bc she’s not in daycare, preschool, any clubs. All this effort and the party will just be Sarah’s adult friends and their kids.

And why is she even nervous? L truly won’t care about all the little details. Is she nervous one of her influencer friends won’t like it? I don’t get it.

Also whose face is this? She’s so fake.

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[–] [email protected] 12 points 2 weeks ago

She's getting grosser by the day. I think she feels the walls closing in. And it's a 4 yr olds birthday party....it's not that fucken complex. Stfu

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (5 children)

She’s a writer ✍️ things, things and more things.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago

Why is she always the only one sitting on a stool while the others stand around her? It’s weird. It screams, “I’m the important one; you must know that!”

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Always hiding her belly with her arm. I can still see it Birdshit.

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[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

All the Shine girls taking turns crying this week. The Disney cure can’t come soon enough. I wonder if Ariana and NB can squeeze out some tears before they leave.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

What was she talking about when saying before you get worried?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

She said she was crying because she was overwhelmed but was laughing while trying to sell everyone on some Lumify eyedrops.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Omg lol stfu Birdshit!!!!!! Go to Disney, it will all be ok!

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

I don't wanna give her ideas, but I just got this ad.

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

It amazes me the way she wishes people happy birthday compared to how others fawn over her birthday. NB just gets a reposted video with a basic message attached. Bri actually posts a photo of her and NB with a nice message.

I’ve thought for a while now that NB and Sarah aren’t as close anymore. Bet Sarah is jealous that Bri and NB got closer bc they both are interested in women’s sports and Sarah is just a try hard.

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

As much as I am not a fan of NB, she does seem to genuinely care about Sarah and want to be her friend, which makes me feel bad for her if Sarah makes no effort to go see her friend and neighbour on her birthday. She sucks

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I agree with you. And while I don’t like Bri either, at least she made an effort to hang out with NB today. Sarah is too busy “filling” out her calendar yet you better make sure you have time for Sarah on her day. It’s no wonder that NB seems to have gotten closer to Bri.

It makes me mad that these people are likely going to Disney to celebrate Sarah when she hardly even celebrates them.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

NB got invited to Sarah 40th BDay trip to Disney, Sarah is the gift. Sarah does the least for everyone. She does the bdays for L but I’m sure that’s mostly for content!

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

I guess BirdShit didn’t want to partake in 7-11 hotdog bday lunch today? Does Becci consume anything healthy or is it just junk food and cat feces 24/7?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

She was hanging out with a writer instead, always prioritizing herself. It was the woman who wrote the Christmas movie Lindsey Lohan was in. It makes me feel sick that she’s digging her way into sweet little movies that make us smile. She’s such a jerk.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

She went out to have coffee with another rando instead.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I don’t check on her every day but I can only assume she doesn’t consume a healthy meal literally ever. I feel like she just eats candy all day and drink pop.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago

Legit, storm chips and pop!

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (3 children)

Any guesses as the why she hides the identity of this “team” she claim to have?

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago

I bet it's just planning how much extra time little L will be at her real guardians' house while her mommy leaves her unnecessary carbon footprint all over Epcot

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Such a busy boss babe! Gotta write in all those hair appointments, spa treatments and shopping trips, must be exhausting for her.

[–] [email protected] 4 points 2 weeks ago

Don’t forget gifted trips across the globe because you know, she’s in such high demand 🙄🙄🙄

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Sweating looking at empty calenders lol.. oh she's sooo busy. Busy boss girl

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

Shush an idiot - she 100% has talked about building her calendar and planning her big life many times. This isn’t new for her. People who tell little lies - tell big lies!

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

🤣She didn’t even break a sweat “running” her Disney 10k but these calendars will do it.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

Had her phone in her hands to take pictures of her newborn baby, but can’t remember the time she was born at. How pathetic

[–] [email protected] 8 points 2 weeks ago

She was "both".......must be high while story telling again

[–] [email protected] 11 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

If these parents didn't have this little girl, I wonder what they would do all day, let alone what Turdie's content would consist of. Shane should be ashamed of himself, what a useless lump he appears to be. I would be so embarrassed if that was my husband and people saw him like that in my internet videos.

Forgive me and I hope I'm wrong, I don't have kids and am rarely around children that young, but L seems to be so ...stunted? for a 4 year old. How did she not know the toy was a baby? The Elsa princess dress needed to be washed, so the only suitable alternate is a floofy fairy dress with wings?? What about normal loungewear?

[–] [email protected] 13 points 2 weeks ago

It’s hard to say because kids can be so different at that age but she definitely has an interesting way of speaking. She is very repetitive and seems to mimic a lot. I don’t know if it’s because they constantly talk to her in that baby voice bullshit or what.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (2 children)

They’ve (Sarah and NK especially) turned that kid into a cartoon tbh. I don’t have kids either nor do I spend a lot of time around them but I do agree with you. I’m sure it has a lot to do with the fact she’s so coddled, sheltered and is always being pushed to perform for the camera. She always comes as robotic to me because she always seems like she’s being fed a script and nothing seems natural about her. Doesn’t help she’s ALWAYYYYYSSSS plopped infront of a Disney movie. Poor kid really needs a life outside of NK’s home and her own home, she needs interactions with other people (teachers and kids).

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

I have kids and they were all speaking in full sentences, having independent thoughts and we could have conversations when they were this age but we always spoke to them like people. We never used baby talk or sing song voices and we engaged them in speaking with people all the time. They weren’t in front of screens just consuming all the time.

[–] [email protected] 10 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

I swear all I hear most of the time is Wow, Oh Wow, good job on repeat. I guess they have given up on gymnastics? No swim lessons?

[–] [email protected] 7 points 2 weeks ago

It’s so sad, I feel bad for her. She seems SO enthusiastic too, I’m sure she’d thrive in some sort of classes/lessons. I’m sorry but she deserves more than doing crafts at nana’s infront of the tv or watching the same movie over and over again at home.

[–] [email protected] 9 points 2 weeks ago

Nothing! That poor child is involved in absolutely nothing!! It’s the saddest thing to see when she’s plopped in front of yet another Disney movie. I have three kids and by no means am I an expert but L does appear to be behind. She really has been turned into a cartoon.

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