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Well, as a guy, I've been asked multiple times why I systematically play games female characters in video games, to the point of skipping a game if I'm forced to pay a male one, with a few exceptions (I really liked Albus from Troubleshooters for example). Whenever there's romance in a game, I'll also take the F/F route. Yet, I don't think I fetishize those in general. There's a thing about not liking most M characters in games, but also something about playing someone really different from who I am. We've had an interesting conversation about this with my gf who always plays F characters and woyd never play M.

Although I'm a straight guy, I've always more identified to female friends and characters, although I have a few male friends too. So I'm wondering who else does that (playing a character not matching your gender), and if you found your own explanation.

Edit : It's not really an oversexualization drive for me, I try to play a female character that looks like me, even though I've never thought about actually becoming a woman.

Edit 2 : So far, I think we have, hmm..

  1. Playing someone that differs from one's irl identity
  2. Physical Attractivity
  3. Male character writing and design
  4. Lara Croft effect
  5. Lady Dwarf
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[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (2 children)

If I have to stare at a digital ass, it might as well be a chick’s ass

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Why are you staring at the ass and not literally everything else in view?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

Because the game designers went out of their way to give the female character model a nice ass.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (3 children)

It's ok to say you like playing as the opposite gender without fear of anyone thinking you're gay, you don't have to objectify women to make a point.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

Objectifying? It's a made up video game character lmao

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

Yeah, I can make the ass as big as I want.

Pixar, eat your heart out!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (2 children)

I also like to play woman characters in games, tomb raider being my favorite one. And it's because I don't like to watch a guy's ass the whole time! I'm playing Cyberpunk right now and I chose a female character for exactly the same reason.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

Cyberpunk's fem V;s voice acting is also way better than the male one.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (3 children)

Why are you staring at the ass and not literally everything else in view?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

Try playing a game in third person with an invisible character then

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago (1 children)

It's right in the center of the screen! There is no way not to look at it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

I disagree, in most 3rd person games I'm hardly ever looking at my character model, but I don't usually play games with a lot of downtime like MMOs I suppose.

Still though when I'm running around a dungeon in Elden Ring, in not staring at my characters ass, I'm looking at the dungeon/monsters/next thing I'm doing. It's kind of like a nose, it's always there and you can see it, but it's rarely the focus.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago

In a game like WoW your character is dead center of the screen for hundreds of hours. You didn't a lot of time looking at your character's movements

[–] [email protected] 0 points 9 months ago* (last edited 9 months ago)

The point is that the difference between 1^st^ person view and 3^rd^ person view matters.