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He did apologise, saying he believes in me and that he was just trying to push me, but that's definitely a mean thing to call someone.
It's the sort of comment that might have motivated him as a young man, and may be motivational for your twin, but definitely is not effective as a motivator for you. And as your parent he should have seen that a lot earlier.
Yes, he should know by now I'm sensitive!
He may be sincere in his apology, but I'm so sorry you experienced that from your father. The things our parents say tend to stick around a while in our heads (my egg donor said "you're just like your father!" And slapped me when I replied "good!" lol, I'll never forget), but know that YOU ARE NOT A LOSER!!!!! no one here would ever say or think that about you, because it's untrue! You are nowhere near to being a loser and your dad should spend the rest of his life making it up to you imo.
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