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That doesn't change anything. The reality is the issue at hand. Is there is a double Standard? Is it very prevalent through out our culture? should it be changed? These are the issues.
Far too often people take any form of feminism to be all encompassing of the most extreme views they've heard, or even that others have claimed without reason. Feminism isn't oppositional to men, it's not even blaming men, just like toxic masculinity isn't about ''men bad'' because it includes problem like ''men are conditioned to repress their emotions which is harmful to men'' and ''men being drafted and not women perpetuates a view that men are disposable, this is a really negative view that's deeply harmful to men''
It's not about who's to blame, who is the enforcer, where did it begin. And not every privilege is a insult to the group that has it. Women do have privileges as well, they are less likely to be suspected of child sexual abuse in professions with children, They receive far less prison time for convictions, they get favored in family court rulings. This doesn't negate all Feminism, nor does it disparage women, these are very borad social realities, that are difficult to change. There are Feminists who have advocates to include women in the draft, there are women who have tried to put forth changes in child rearing to reduce the chance a boy will grow up to be emotionally repressed. It's not about who is to blame, it's about seeing a double standard and working on it.
I agree with most of what you said. However, this poster seems to be framing this particular issue as an example of men enforcing a double standard on women. If that's not what they intended to convey then they should choose a different way to express their idea that better communicates the intended message.
What gives you the impression they are framing it that way?
I responded to another comment along the same lines here if you would like to see it. I would be happy to continue a civil discussion with you if you have more to add.
It seems like you're taking from the phrase "male privilege" an accusation that this is somehow men's fault. I think the other commenter said it perfectly well, just because a privilege is afforded to a group doesn't mean that group is responsible for that privilege. It's still a privilege that they have.
In your example, wearing dresses might well be considered "female privilege", yes. I doubt you'd hear this talked about because it's quite minor, but you're not wrong. Another example which illustrates it well is "pretty privilege" - we all know that life is easier for attractive people. That doesn't mean they are oppressing average or unattractive people personally. They just have advantages. Not their fault, still a privilege.