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What just happened to you wasn't a disagreement, that was a hair trigger to a dunk, hex or not
Beaver has been here for a while and contributes often, I trust her and she simply wanted an answer to a misunderstanding on a subject she cares about deeply.
Totally fine but the words used were very toxic and aggressive. Had shadow been away and not replied promptly, a whole chain of events, built of an assumption would have been rolling, and shadows good name brought into question. Jumping to a conclusion with a threat locked and loaded. When clarified the threat retracted with imperious attitude.
I make no comment on the history of the user or the instance, and imply no alting. but the behavior displayed was very alike that of hex.
It felt indeed a but agressive, but the cause of veganism and animal defense is deep to her heart so I kinda get where it came from.
I get that, and respect that. If it's as you say and they are a leading voice in this space, I leave with this statement:
Leadership is a burden, and reasonable, measured action is how it's carried.
A very smart wildland fire crewboss told me something close to that once when I made squaddie.
Wise advice, thanks for sharing :)