Off My Chest
RULES:
I am looking for mods!
1. The "good" part of our community means we are pro-empathy and anti-harassment. However, we don't intend to make this a "safe space" where everyone has to be a saint. Sh*t happens, and life is messy. That's why we get things off our chests.
2. Bigotry is not allowed. That includes racism, sexism, ableism, homophobia, transphobia, xenophobia, and religiophobia. (If you want to vent about religion, that's fine; but religion is not inherently evil.)
3. Frustrated, venting, or angry posts are still welcome.
4. Posts and comments that bait, threaten, or incite harassment are not allowed.
5. If anyone offers mental, medical, or professional advice here, please remember to take it with a grain of salt. Seek out real professionals if needed.
6. Please put NSFW behind NSFW tags.
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This sucks right now, but you've got this. Its bad all of this happens at once, but you're going to work the problems, you're going to find workarounds or solutions, and you're going to make it through this. You're going to face some other challenge a year or two from now, and you're going to look back on right now and be confident you'll get through THAT challenge because you got through THIS one successfully.
Sit down with your girlfriend and figure out what your available resources are, what goals are most important in the short term, come up with a plan, and work the plan. YOU'VE GOT THIS!!! I BELIEVE IN YOU!