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couldn't be me (lemmy.ml)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 12 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I don't think there's anything wrong with having preferences. As long as you don't fetishize or objectify, and you treat people with dignity and respect it's all chill.

[โ€“] [email protected] 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Yeah I definitely treat everyone with respect and try to avoid fetishizing. I'd be lying if I said that I'm not trying to find someone with certain features, but I guess that's really just having a preference. I'm not opposed to the idea of dating someone who doesn't have all those features. My preferences are mostly about personality anyways though.