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[–] [email protected] 25 points 5 months ago (10 children)

Bit of a shitty weekend. I don't really have anyone to talk to about this, so I guess you guys are it. I don't really wanna got into specifics, cause it may not happen and i don't want this to be identifiable. So I started looking at apartments over the weekend. Somethings happened and I'm just not sure this is sustainable. To the point where a small 2 bed unit and 50/50 custody is starting to look appealing.

We've got couples therapy booked for end of next month (something I've been requesting for a while now). Will see if they can help us figure some stuff out.

This is the first time I've said this stuff out loud, so even hitting that Post button is... tough. like I'm making it real or somethin.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Sorry to hear. Relationships are tough, especially with kids. Be gentle with yourself and try to respond to the situation and conversations rather than react/defend. Hope the counsellor helps, either way though, from someone who has had 2 marriages end before 40, leaving is sometimes the best option for everyone and life gets to be great again given time. Relationships are absolutely worth fighting for but its definitely not a failure to walk away

[–] [email protected] 4 points 5 months ago

Hope the counsellor helps, either way though, from someone who has had 2 marriages end before 40, leaving is sometimes the best option for everyone and life gets to be great again given time. Relationships are absolutely worth fighting for but its definitely not a failure to walk away

Cheers, yeah agreed. No sense setting ourselves on fire to keep the other warm.

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