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So, I understand that some people can have the same name, but this isn’t the case with my husband. My husband’s name is so unusually spelled that he was the only person, besides his biological father, who had that first and last name combination on a birth certificate. This is a fact that he shared with me when we first started dating. He seemed pretty proud of that, and I always thought it was funny. After I married him, and changed my last name to his, I became the only woman in America that had my first and last name on record. It’s just that odd of a last name, so please trust me on this one when I say that someone is using his name.

The profile on instagram, that I just discovered, displays a profile picture of an older man, standing, or sitting, beside a woman of about the same age. I wanted to report it to instagram, but there wasn’t an option to report the possibility of a spouse’s stolen identity. It is definitely not my husband’s account. The friends listed in the pages he follows, are not any names that I recognize from his group of friends. He would never lose contact with some of his closest friends.

I am worried.

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[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago (1 children)

I’m not pulling any shenanigans. Here is hoping you never have to experience your spouse looking for you. It seems like you want me to shut up and stop looking for my husband. Any reason why? I hope his friends aren’t stalking my account because they did something to him and can’t admit it.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

We're tired of your posting a new crazy story everyday. Then deleting the post. When the conversation doesn't support your narrative.

Also you haven't had any contact with your husband in 7 years, according to the post you deleted yesterday. How do you know he's looking for you?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 6 months ago

Oh, you speak for everyone? “We’re tired of…”? My posts are crazy? Then stop reading them. If you are ever missing, I will ignore posts about it.

He probably isn’t looking for me. He probably has found someone new and lives with her. I would like to be officially divorced to severe legal and financial ties. Does that seem crazy to you?