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I'm doomed π But like, seriously. If anycritter wants a broken, janky thirty-something trans critter as a rescue or a pet, am available ΓΆ/ Not looking to pollute another comm with my mess so I'll not post one of my signature walls-of-text this time <.< >.>
In other news, Sour Strips are pretty tasty. Uhm, I thought I was gonna see a bus fight a night or two ago. Buses here are kinda nice generally but sometimes the driver has to call some people out before there's a beatdown on the bus :-\ Haven't had to deal with any smokers on the buses, so that's nice. Can't say that about the light rail :| New (to me) city funs π΅βπ«
I haven't followed your whole story, but I last remember you managed to find some safe lodging in MN. Is that not still true?
I had a week or two, then a place I'd hoped was at least semi-stable after that. Well, the place I was expecting to be my serious starting-point totally fell through the day before, so since this is week 4 of "a week or two" and my time's up and I've got maybe one hope for somewhere to go I'm getting stressed and scrambly again.
(Yes, I'm that broken that I can't turn a month into a life. I actually don't know how I was supposed to have managed it and no one's willing to tell me so I'm just kinda lost now. Other than being able to ride a bus. I can get to Knollwood and back. Yay. Got cut off from phone Internet access so not betting I'll be able to get to or from anywhere else, but that's kinda my big success dealing with my mental and life issues. Yay me. π« )
I'm sorry you're going through that. I wish I had feelers in Minnesota, but sadly I'm on the other side of the country. I really hope you can find something. Also, does Minnesota have low-income phone programs? I believe there's something of the sort here in Washington, but idk whether it's a commonplace thing elsewhere.
Not to press you but as a general clarification, I can (probably; TSA may eat me because of my expired license π ) fly again if it'll get me a chance I can actually use. Anxing just thinking about trying to manage that but whatever, right? π A hope's a hope, reason and reality can just stay out of it.
There is a program that will cut like $10 off of a landline bill and another that I think does $9 off of an Internet connection or bundle including that (which I believe is the one that can apply to cell service). Looks like that could get me down to like $40 per month π Alternatives include services like TextNow, which will mail me a SIM for like $5 that I can use to provide them with all of my communications and in exchange I get ads and some level of service, assuming they don't ban me for no reason (which is apparently a thing they do? Hmm.)
[Rantyramble] Everything feels like a huge mess when one's life (well, what I had of one anyway) just gets spontaneously knocked over. Like, even phone service maybe sounds simple but there's more to it just because of the mess I'm in. Waiting for mail may be a no-go if I have to go somewhere else before it arrives. Alternatively, I could "just" go to a carrier's shop and sign up for $50+ (skipping the shenans I may have to go through to get the $9 off or whatever) but that requires that I find one (easy enough, GMaps that up) and get to it (could be hours on multiple buses and/or trains with transfers and no ability to track any of it because of my lack of connectivity) and hope my phone's not locked up to the biofam account they're using to screw me over or some other kinda crap I'll have to/be unable to deal with. Bonus points for readers who remember that I've got nasty anxiety problems and can barely make a phone call without a days-long struggle and so even the one little issue may be impossible to resolve right now π
Sadly you'd probably just be playing a game of state leapfrog. My usefulness in-state is limited to a passing knowledge of social services that are unique to Washington. Most of my friends are young and either living at-home or in shared apartments/dorms, and I live in a 200sq/ft studio in the middle of β¨ nowhere β¨, so I'm pretty unhelpful housing-wise. ~~Though Washington is probably one of the best places in the world especially if you're trans and I will fight to the death for this claim.~~
As someone who's basically lived one calamity to the next recently (even after daring think I had found some form of stability on several occasions), I wish you the best. Things have somehow stayed afloat for me, and I'm confident the same will be said for you.