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Gonna need to be a full on poly commune at this rate if prices keep going up.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago) (1 children)

๐ŸŽถ Come and knock on our door...๐ŸŽถ

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[โ€“] [email protected] 18 points 5 months ago

You could room without the fucking, but I mean, have you seen streaming prices?

[โ€“] [email protected] 61 points 5 months ago

All three in my triad are ADHD no one else cares enough to try to understand us but we have eachother.

[โ€“] [email protected] 41 points 5 months ago (1 children)
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[โ€“] [email protected] 141 points 5 months ago (4 children)

We're getting closer and closer to wrapping back around and just having community. Just remove the sex aspect and boom you got a community going.

[โ€“] [email protected] 108 points 5 months ago (5 children)

you ever wonder if communities typically did just have a bunch of sex but revisionism happened

[โ€“] [email protected] 93 points 5 months ago (10 children)

For most of the existence of human species (according to the scholarly consensus of anthropologists) we existed in bands of adults who would intermingle freely. Adolescent men would raid nearby tribes and kidnap their young women, which is the means by which genes were exchanged between tribes.

All the monogamy and licensing happened after agriculture and the great leap forward once tribes became big enough that infectious diseases were no longer contained through pure isolation. We see the misogynistic trends rise in late Hellenic periods and then Christianity cranked it up to eleven, so now we imagine even our migrant hunter-gatherer ancestors paired off.

As a note, during the middle ages, it was super important among aristocracy to assure ladies-in-waiting were virginal before they were wed, and then used purely as heir machines, but the serf class routinely banged like bunnies in springtime. And while frowned upon by the more piety-minded clergy, it was generally ignored because a) Child mortality was something awful and every kid that ever reached majority was to be celebrated, and b) The labor shortage was extreme everywhere. There was always way too much stuff to be done, and so every pair of hands was welcome, even when they were attacked to an idiot, a malformed hunchback, a ne'er-do-well or the bastard progeny of a mixed coupling.

Curiously, as we see in the birth of Mordred, pre-Christian European traditions included suspending adultery limitations during holidays, which happened at least once a season, sometimes twice. So even in societies where monogamy was the norm, there was a defined space for getting a bit on the side. (Useful when your partner was infertile.)

So yeah. Right in one.

[โ€“] [email protected] 21 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Thank you, for being the expert when we needed one.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 13 points 5 months ago

I'd guess they did, but I have no way to prove it. Let's build some and find out.

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[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 5 months ago (1 children)

I'd be down regardless tbh

[โ€“] [email protected] 15 points 5 months ago

mood. when youre poly af but also forever alone af

[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 5 months ago

A silver lining on this black cloud

[โ€“] [email protected] 23 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Instantly reminded me of The Moon is a Harsh Mistress by Robert A. Heinlein.

[โ€“] [email protected] 20 points 5 months ago (1 children)

And the polyam belta fam from The Expanse

[โ€“] [email protected] 19 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)
[โ€“] [email protected] 46 points 5 months ago (1 children)

Who up to join the polycule

[โ€“] [email protected] 51 points 5 months ago (6 children)

Or just a co-op house so we don't feel obligated to copulate with each other, which we could do any ways in a co-op but only if we actually want to.

[โ€“] [email protected] 48 points 5 months ago

nobody should ever feel obligated to copulate in any relationship :c

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