There's a surprising amount of that, not to mention... not sure whether to go into it but...
Seanchan stuff
Those collars that can control people who channel are also used in a very kinky way.
That said, there's also a few times when there's the same stuff on men by women, and, I think, on women by men. But since the Aiel wise ones and Aes Sedai alike are societies of women, well, there's a lot of that going on.