Playground bullies do prosper – and go on to earn more in middle age : philosophy

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

Someone rename this guardian article to:

Kids with traumatic childhoods tend to carry that with them forward in life affecting their day to day

or

Bullies enabled by parents and environment to continue bullying shockingly continue this behavior into their careers where “dogs” are more valued than free thinking/diverse individuals.

Biiiiiig shocker but let’s keep ignoring the effects of systemic problems and just Stockholm ourselves into thinking that this is actually just reality

Capitalism is so cool and effective at bringing the best out of society let’s keep it around forever

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Hypothetically, if there was an omnipotent way to be sure of who is a bully vs who is being bullied and completely segregated them, would the bullied ones have a better chance? Would the two segregated groups then split into bullies and bullied again?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

It depends on what metric you're measuring by. If you want to know who will make the most money it'll probably be the bully group. If you want to know who will be less likely to end the world in nuclear fire it will be the non-bully group.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

I don't think so. I was bullied a lot at school by a few people. But at home I had a great group of friends and we got along really well. There were no bullies. And if anyone got out of line they were quickly put in their place.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (2 children)

Because childhood bullies have psychopathic tendencies and lack empathy, a great set of traits that are rewarded in a capitalistic system when they become adults. Capitalism tends to reward the worst of our species with the greatest amount of power and wealth.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (3 children)

Sadly that's untrue, it's simply human nature. Bullies are usually in the popular, social, etc group. And when they pick targets they usually pick people with weaker mentality, personality, or are odd and unusual. One such personality are people who are unempathatic, lack social skills. In a sense they target people that don't fit in.

Kids who grew up as bullies get rewarded later in life because they're simply more social and more likely to start businesses.

Obviously we can't speak with broad strokes in all cases however it's a common observation.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

It's really not. That's capitalist propaganda.

For example, you can have counterculture groups where that kind of behavior is discouraged rather than embraced. Which is not to say that it's impossible for something like this to happen in those groups (for someone with authoritarian desires to get what they want) but the fact that they're consistently rewarded for it in our modern world is not human nature. It's the world we built.

See: psychopathic/antisocial (in the modern, psychological diagnostic sense) tendencies being overrepresented at the top of authority structures.

As long as we, as a society, highly value those authoritarian modes of organization we're going to be rewarding people for this behavior.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I base it on life experience and the people I've known in my life.

I've watched countless empathetic people do good for others and they never grew any wealthier than when they were 20.

I've also seen lots of people completely disregard others, take advantage of as many as possible and as often as they can and got rewarded at every step to the point they became enormously wealthy.

The lack of empathy for others directly correlated to the amount of wealth a person has. You have to be a certain kind of mentality to believe that you can own outrageous amounts of money while others are struggling around you.

You have to be psychopathic to want to own enough money to last a thousand lifetimes to live in a world where you know others are starving and dying because they have nothing .... and often because of ones insatiable need to want to own the entire world.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)

How is that proof of it being capitalism specifically that causes that. While I generally think you are probably right to at least some degree that capitalism makes it worse... It's hard to prove. Nearly all systems reward those that seek power, with power. It's not unique to capitalism. If we were under any other political and economic system, those systems would also reward those that seek power.

The problem is that in any system, those that act only in their own interest, and have the intelligence/skills to do so, will operate in such a way to effectuate the best possible outcome for themselves. Even in such a system that only rewards communally beneficial acts, those that seek power would find a way to game that system to their benefit. The problem is that those who seek power are those that most often obtain it. You can't win the lottery without buying a ticket...

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Source?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

The article itself, and the study it references.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Nah, it is because they are more intelligent and bully put of boredom.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

They sound pretty dumb if this was the best thing they could come up with to do.

Sounds more like dunning-Krueger than anything

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

All kids are dumb. Intelligence is relative.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I don’t mean this to be rude but this is an incredibly shallow statement, so imma leave it at that

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

No worries I’ll not perceive it as rude if you have a point. Which I seriously don’t get now. You wanna say that children have equal understanding of the world as adults? Or you just don’t want me to call them dumb?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I said what you said was shallow. That’s it

Pretty moot point overall, what does that have anything to do with what I was talking about?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

But you’re afraid telling me why it is shallow. And I’m telling you it’s not rude. Only reason not to give it at this point is that you actually haven’t reasoned through it properly.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

I can’t tell from your broken English… but it sounds like you’re very confused and think I’m somehow afraid to tell a stranger (you) online they’re acting like a pseudo intellectual and look incredibly shallow as a person.

Smart people aren’t bullies but keep lying to yourself.

Hope that was clear enough!

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

You must be American. Not able to give any arguments for a statement. Just repeat the statement as if it were an argument.

I never said smart people are bullies. I said bullies are more intelligent than their direct peers. But whatever, my English is bad so it’s impossible that I understand the nuance between those statements.

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

Not at all what I meant but okay, you can play the victim card if that’s what’s easier for you, the bully who’s smarter than allll his peers

👍

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago (1 children)

Where do you think managers come from?

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

You mean upper management

[–] [email protected] 0 points 7 months ago

Frustrating. Makes me want to downvote but it is not the articles fault 😮‍💨

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