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How can I get better at talking? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 3 days ago by [email protected] to c/[email protected]

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I don't know if anyone else has this problem but I have a really pacific issue. In general just I suck at talking. I find it hard to put my thoughts to words, I never know what words to use and I never know what to say.

I talk like xQc irl and the act of using words to hard I'm always slurring them out even tho I try not to and I have a stutter and a slip so saying thing is very hard.

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[–] [email protected] -1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Given the context of your post, I would suggest starting with the basics. Taking the time to learn how to write properly may give you some ability to speak properly.

I have a really pacific issue

I don't know if this is typo or if you think your issue is as big as the ocean.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Given the context of the post, that they're asking for help, picking on this seems needless and unsympathetic. Given their own acknowledged problems with speech I don't see why making a joke about their writing would seem helpful or appropriate.

[–] [email protected] 1 points 2 days ago (1 children)

I was actually being dead serious.

[–] [email protected] 2 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

You deadly seriously didn't know if they were talking about the Pacific Ocean? In a post about someone who has trouble speaking clearly, in a reply clearly establishing you were aware there were writing errors, zeroing in on a word well known to be accidentally substituted for the word "specifically" by some speakers. You deadly seriously didn't know?

[–] [email protected] 1 points 6 hours ago

I've never actually seen someone write out "pacific" in such a way and it's quite plausible that people mishear something and presume it to be true based on other context - such as an issue as big as an ocean. Yes. It happens a lot.